#740: Greg McKeown and Diana Chapman
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This episode is a two-for-one, and that’s because the podcast recently hit its 10-year anniversary and passed one billion downloads. To celebrate, I’ve curated some of the best of the best—some of my favorites—from more than 700 episodes over the last decade. I could not be more excited. The episode features segments from episode #355 "Greg McKeown — How to Master Essentialism" and episode #536 "Diana Chapman — How to Get Unstuck, Do “The Work,” Take Radical Responsibility, and Reduce Drama in Your Life."
Please enjoy!
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Timestamps:
[05:26] Notes about this supercombo format.
[06:28] Enter Greg McKeown.
[06:49] What is non-essential?
[07:46] Overcoming the planning fallacy.
[13:30] The problem with taking ownership of someone else’s problems.
[15:44] How to avoid committing to the unsustainable.
[21:26] Three rules.
[25:28] The personal quarterly offsite.
[33:05] Enter Diana Chapman.
[33:22] A transformative gift.
[36:56] The Drama Triangle.
[43:36] The whole-body yes (or no) and how it can serve us.
[46:06] Diana guides an experience to help pay better attention to our whole-body yes (or no).
[54:36] Observations made during the exercise and how Diana recommends using this inventory.
[1:01:39] Fostering playfulness for those who mute their desire to celebrate.
[1:08:28] Diana’s “black belt in practicing candor.”
[1:09:37] Diana’s thoughts on loving pressure and how to bring it into a relationship.
[1:13:24] Applying loving pressure to people you don’t know well.
[1:15:08] Diana’s guidance on introspection leading to perspective shifts; using Byron Katie’s “turnarounds.”
[1:17:48] Diana guides me through a turnaround.
[1:23:58] A turnaround’s purpose is to identify and embrace alternatives, not invalidate the inspected belief.
[1:29:06] The importance of introducing the somatic into the process; suggestions for difficulty with this step.
[1:31:47] The role of the witness in this process.
[1:33:54] Walking the line.
[1:35:40] Welcoming the opportunity to learn from the experience, even if it’s not preferred.
[1:37:35] Alternative tools for dysregulation in the moment.
[1:39:31] Risks Diana and her husband Matt took to keep their relationship vital; who initiated the first difficult conversation.
[1:45:11] How Diana figured out who she needed to be during this time.
[1:47:11] Navigating decision points together as a couple.
[1:49:42] Examples of commitments from The 15 Commitments of Conscious Leadership.
[1:53:22] The Mind Jogger app and how Diana uses it with the commitments.
[1:55:55] Assessing self-awareness in hiring interviews applied to non-job situations.
[1:57:53] Books most gifted.
[1:59:35] Parting thoughts.
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This episode is a two-for-one, and that’s because the podcast recently hit its 10-year anniversary and passed one billion downloads. To celebrate, I’ve curated some of the best of the best—some of my favorites—from more than 700 episodes over the last decade. I could not be more excited. The episode features segments from episode #355 "Greg McKeown — How to Master Essentialism" and episode #536 "Diana Chapman — How to Get Unstuck, Do “The Work,” Take Radical Responsibility, and Reduce Drama in Your Life."
Please enjoy!
Sponsors:
Momentous high-quality supplements: https://livemomentous.com/tim (code TIM for 20% off)
Wealthfront high-yield savings account: https://wealthfront.com/tim (5% interest on your savings, and when you open an account today, you’ll get an extra fifty-dollar bonus with a deposit of five hundred dollars or more)
Helix Sleep premium mattresses: https://helixsleep.com/tim (between 25% and 30% off all mattress orders and two free pillows.)
Timestamps:
[00:00] Start
[05:26] Notes about this supercombo format.
[06:28] Enter Greg McKeown.
[06:49] What is non-essential?
[07:46] Overcoming the planning fallacy.
[13:30] The problem with taking ownership of someone else’s problems.
[15:44] How to avoid committing to the unsustainable.
[21:26] Three rules.
[25:28] The personal quarterly offsite.
[33:05] Enter Diana Chapman.
[33:22] A transformative gift.
[36:56] The Drama Triangle.
[43:36] The whole-body yes (or no) and how it can serve us.
[46:06] Diana guides an experience to help pay better attention to our whole-body yes (or no).
[54:36] Observations made during the exercise and how Diana recommends using this inventory.
[1:01:39] Fostering playfulness for those who mute their desire to celebrate.
[1:08:28] Diana’s “black belt in practicing candor.”
[1:09:37] Diana’s thoughts on loving pressure and how to bring it into a relationship.
[1:13:24] Applying loving pressure to people you don’t know well.
[1:15:08] Diana’s guidance on introspection leading to perspective shifts; using Byron Katie’s “turnarounds.”
[1:17:48] Diana guides me through a turnaround.
[1:23:58] A turnaround’s purpose is to identify and embrace alternatives, not invalidate the inspected belief.
[1:29:06] The importance of introducing the somatic into the process; suggestions for difficulty with this step.
[1:31:47] The role of the witness in this process.
[1:33:54] Walking the line.
[1:35:40] Welcoming the opportunity to learn from the experience, even if it’s not preferred.
[1:37:35] Alternative tools for dysregulation in the moment.
[1:39:31] Risks Diana and her husband Matt took to keep their relationship vital; who initiated the first difficult conversation.
[1:45:11] How Diana figured out who she needed to be during this time.
[1:47:11] Navigating decision points together as a couple.
[1:49:42] Examples of commitments from The 15 Commitments of Conscious Leadership.
[1:53:22] The Mind Jogger app and how Diana uses it with the commitments.
[1:55:55] Assessing self-awareness in hiring interviews applied to non-job situations.
[1:57:53] Books most gifted.
[1:59:35] Parting thoughts.
*
For show notes and past guests on The Tim Ferriss Show , please visit tim.blog/podcast .
For deals from sponsors of The Tim Ferriss Show , please visit tim.blog/podcast-sponsors
Sign up for Tim’s email newsletter ( 5-Bullet Friday ) at tim.blog/friday .
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Follow Tim:
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Past guests on The Tim Ferriss Show include Jerry Seinfeld , Hugh Jackman , Dr. Jane Goodall , LeBron James , Kevin Hart , Doris Kearns Goodwin , Jamie Foxx , Matthew McConaughey , Esther Perel , Elizabeth Gilbert , Terry Crews , Sia , Yuval Noah Harari , Malcolm Gladwell , Madeleine Albright , Cheryl Strayed , Jim Collins , Mary Karr, Maria Popova , Sam Harris , Michael Phelps , Bob Iger , Edward Norton , Arnold Schwarzenegger , Neil Strauss , Ken Burns , Maria Sharapova , Marc Andreessen , Neil Gaiman , Neil de Grasse Tyson , Jocko Willink , Daniel Ek , Kelly Slater , Dr. Peter Attia , Seth Godin , Howard Marks , Dr. Brené Brown , Eric Schmidt , Michael Lewis , Joe Gebbia , Michael Pollan , Dr. Jordan Peterson , Vince Vaughn , Brian Koppelman , Ramit Sethi , Dax Shepard , Tony Robbins , Jim Dethmer , Dan Harris , Ray Dalio , Naval Ravikant , Vitalik Buterin , Elizabeth Lesser , Amanda Palmer , Katie Haun , Sir Richard Branson , Chuck Palahniuk , Arianna Huffington , Reid Hoffman , Bill Burr , Whitney Cummings , Rick Rubin , Dr. Vivek Murthy , Darren Aronofsky , Margaret Atwood , Mark Zuckerberg , Peter Thiel , Dr. Gabor Maté , Anne Lamott , Sarah Silverman , Dr. Andrew Huberman , and many more.
See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .